I have some good news and some bad news. The good
two lovebirds sharing a nest for a while or two old people sharing
their lives. I’m talking about young people living together and having
kids and not making any commitment to each other.
You would think
that if you want to take on the responsibility of raising a family,
with your significant other, you would kind of make it official. Now, I
know that there is no shame in living like this anymore. Shame went out
the window a long time ago.
But it seems to me if I was a womanand was going to commit to having children for some guy, if for noother reason then to make sure he was serious about the kids and me — Iwould say how about we sign a contract?
Why don’t men want to dothis? Well, I can think of several reasons. First, he doesn’t want toshare his stuff with you. He just wants to share his lust with you.
Secondly, the government pays single mothers some support, and maybe if she can collect that, it will help out with the bills.
But probably the biggest reason is he doesn’t want to be on the hook for anything. He’s just not ready to settle down.
Howdo we stop this? Well, some morals to start with might go a long waybut I think that ship has sailed. How about you’re not going to getsupport from the county unless you tell who the father is. How aboutthe country takes that information and does something about it.